Here's the deal, Brides.
1. Take into account your wedding party's coloring, sizes, and shapes. Is one girl a blonde Glamzon and another an Italian curvy queen? The same exact dress will not (no, trust me, it will not) work on both ladies.
2. Think about the season and where your ceremony and reception will be taking place. A cotton minidress may look cute for your ultramod wedding but not so much if it's held at an open air venue in November and your 'maids are a-shiverin'.
3. Be honest about how much your wedding party can spend on a dress. Yes, you may have found the perfect option (great color, beautiful fabric, looks good on everyone) at Vera Wang but, honestly, very few people can afford that fee (or want to).
4. Don't fool yourself. The dress will never get worn again. Really.
So, how does a bride deal with the above in the classiest way and still achieve the look she's hoping for?
1. Pick a choice of colors and cuts. Stick to 3 of each and work with the group to make sure you get a pleasing finished look. Every party has that one girl who looks great in anything so I'd concentrate on clothing the "harder" bodies (i.e. pregnant, very tall, curvy, etc) first. Just a note, pencil or A-line skirts look great on everyone, as do wrap dresses and tailored shirtdresses.
2. It's important to match your attire to the season and it will make budget dress hunting easier for you and your 'maids. Still dying for a minidress in November? Pick one in a heavy material (wool blend, sweater-y, etc) and pair it with knee-height boots and tights. And possibly a shawl or wrap.
3. Budget. Just because you've alloted $100 per bridesmaid outfit for your ladies does not mean that they can swing those funds. Have an honest conversation with each lady individually about how much you were thinking of as an outfit budget and what types of clothing you are considering. Someone might have a part of the outfit (i.e. knee-high boots, a cashmere wrap, etc) already in their closet. Someone else might be able to do a little browsing and find budget options below your original estimate. But sometimes, someone simply cannot afford to be in your wedding. And that's okay.
4. Seriously, never again. Stop dreamin'.
I decided to browse around and find some pretty, beachy bridesmaid outfits (top to bottom) for under $100 (that also coordinate with these beachy bridal outfits and these groom/groomsmen beach options)! Here's what I came up with:
Option #1 (Total Cost of Outfit – $79.96):
*1. Old Navy Cross-Front Jersey Tank Dresses in Multi-Print. *2. Old Navy Espadrille Wedge Slides in White. *3. Payless Wood Bead Necklace in Brown. *4. Old Navy Drop Earrings in Brass Ox. *5. Old Navy Cut-Out Linen-Blend Clutches in Silver Metallic. *6. Payless Row Wood Bracelet in Brown.
Option #2 (Total Cost of Outfit – $100.14):
*1. ASOS Cutaway Tailored Sleeveless Shift Dress in Yellow. *2. Target Halle Glitter Sandals in Bronze. *3. Old Navy Faux-Pearl Fashion Necklace in Cultura. *4. Old Navy Drop Earrings in Silver Ox. *5. Old Navy Metal Bangles in Gold Plated. *6. Amazon Wallet in Bronze.
Option #3 (Total Cost of Outfit – $93.93):
*1. J Crew Thessaly Beach Dress in Wave Crest. *2. Payless Princess Beaded Flip-Flop in White. *3. Old Navy Ethnic Mixed-Media Necklace in Multi Bead. *4. Old Navy Beaded Chandelier Earrings in Pink. *5. Amazon Hailey Clutch in Fuschia. *6. Old Navy Ethnic Fashion Bracelets in Multi.
Tulle Nation, what do you think of these bridesmaid outfits? Would you wear any of them? Why or why not? Is $100 a reasonable amount for a total bridesmaid's outfit? Have it out in the comments!