Fall is here! Well, not here in San Antonio, Texas but technicially the fall season is upon us (P.S. Totally jealous of those of you not sweltering in the triple digits… I miss cold weather.). Which brings us to today's post – dressing your bridesmaids in a fashionable fall look that won't damage their pocketbooks!
One of the oldest wedding jokes is how traditionally awful the bridesmaid's dresses are. Sitcoms have based entire episodes around it (remember Rachel's awful Bo-Beep get-up for ex-Barry's wedding to Mindy?) and Glamour has even had a contest about it for their Do's and Don'ts page.
Here's the deal, Brides.
1. Take into account your wedding party's coloring, sizes, and shapes. Is one girl a blonde Glamzon and another an Italian curvy queen? The same exact dress will not (no, trust me, it will not) work on both ladies.
2. Think about the season and where your ceremony and reception will be taking place. A cotton minidress may look cute for your ultramod wedding but not so much if it's held at an open air venue in November and your 'maids are a-shiverin'.
3. Be honest about how much your wedding party can spend on a dress. Yes, you may have found the perfect option (great color, beautiful fabric, looks good on everyone) at Vera Wang but, honestly, very few people can afford that fee (or want to).
4. Don't fool yourself. The dress will never get worn again. Really.
So, how does a bride deal with the above in the classiest way and still achieve the look she's hoping for?
1. Pick a choice of colors and cuts. Stick to 3 of each and work with the group to make sure you get a pleasing finished look. Every party has that one girl who looks great in anything so I'd concentrate on clothing the "harder" bodies (i.e. pregnant, very tall, curvy, etc) first. Just a note, pencil or A-line skirts look great on everyone, as do wrap dresses and tailored shirtdresses.
2. It's important to match your attire to the season and it will make budget dress hunting easier for you and your 'maids. Still dying for a minidress in November? Pick one in a heavy material (wool blend, sweater-y, etc) and pair it with knee-height boots and tights. And possibly a shawl or wrap.
3. Budget. Just because you've alloted $100 per bridesmaid outfit for your ladies does not mean that they can swing those funds. Have an honest conversation with each lady individually about how much you were thinking of as an outfit budget and what types of clothing you are considering. Someone might have a part of the outfit (i.e. knee-high boots, a cashmere wrap, etc) already in their closet. Someone else might be able to do a little browsing and find budget options below your original estimate. But sometimes, someone simply cannot afford to be in your wedding. And that's okay.
4. Seriously, never again. Stop dreamin'.
I decided to browse around and find some pretty, fall-inspired bridesmaid outfits (top to bottom) for under $150 each! Here's what I came up with:
Option #1 (Total Cost of Outfit – $131.92):
*1. Target Strapless Wrap-Front Chiffon Maxi Dress in Florida Mango. *2. Amazon Chunky Orange Stone Look Beads Goldtone Necklace and Earrings Set. *3. Wal-Mart Heart in D Women's Jones Cork Platform Dress Pumps. *4. Target Snake Clutch in Orange. *5. Old Navy Lightweight Burnout Scarves in Briquette.
Option #1 (Total Cost of Outfit – $93.36):
*1. Old Navy Jersey Kimono-Sleeve Dress in Polly Juice Purple. *2. Amazon Michael Antonio Closed-Toe Pump in Nude. *3. Forever 21 Pearlescent Bead Necklace in Light Brown and Gold. *4. Wal-Mart J. Furmani chiffon clutch in Pewter. *5. Forever 21 Colorful Rhinestone Studs in Light Pink and Gold. *6. Amazon Pashmina in Emerald Green.
Option #1 (Total Cost of Outfit – $135.58):
*1. Forever 21 Pleated Asymmetrical Dress in Blue. *2. Target Hailey Jeans Co. High Heel Boots in Camel. *3. Old Navy Beaded Skinny Belt in Light Brown. *4. Target Drop Multi Row Necklace in Turquoise. *5. Forever 21 Peacock Feather Earrings. *6. Target Mossimo Supply Co. Blue Jean Printed Canvas Clutch. *7. Amazon Pashmina in Turquoise.
Tulle Nation, what do you think of these fall-inspired bridesmaid outfits? Would you wear any of them? Why or why not? Is $100 a reasonable amount for a total bridesmaid's outfit? Have it out in the comments!