Today’s post is all about the numbers – our $5,000 wedding budget and how we spent the money. I’m mostly going to post the budget breakdown in manageable chunks but I’ll add notes here and there to help clarify a few things. Right. Ready? And away we goooo!
Alternative Wedding Vows or Readings: Stephen King Edition
Let me tell you, one of the hardest things about planning my own wedding was trying to write the wedding ceremony. I was not a fan of the traditional vows (I obey no one but myself thankyouverymuch) and really wanted to find something that reflected our concept of what we wanted our relationship to be. If you’re in the same boat but looking for alternative vows with a more creepy/scary lean – well, here ya go! Some wedding vows – Stephen King style!
Kids Aren’t Invited to a Wedding? It’s Not Personal
There are several hot button issues associated with any wedding and today, we’re tackling The No Kids Issue. Specifically, why it’s NOT ABOUT YOU if you’re invited to a wedding but your kids are not. Here’s the deal, I adore kids and we had tons of them at our wedding. But it was easy and totally possible for us to do so. The wedding was at our house, outside, and featured a simple buffet catered by us. Lots of room for the kids to play and run around safely and no dealing with a kid’s menu. But other people’s weddings aren’t like this and many times, their hands are tied on the whole kids at the wedding issue. Here’s some real reasons why, if your kids aren’t invited to a wedding, it’s not personal:
Fabulous Pairings for Bridesmaid Dresses and Shoes
Recently someone asked me for advice on finding the “right” type of shoe for her bridesmaids to wear with a specific style of dress. My answer is that there ARE NO RULES and she should let them wear whatever makes them happy and let’s them dance all night. However, I do acknowledge that there are a few styles of footwear and dresses that seem to pair up well with each other. So, here are a few of my suggestions for fabulous pairings for bridesmaid dresses and shoes.
Fabulous Pairings for Bridesmaid Dresses and Shoes
Recently someone asked me for advice on finding the “right” type of shoe for her bridesmaids to wear with a specific style of dress. My answer is that there ARE NO RULES and she should let them wear whatever makes them happy and let’s them dance all night. However, I do acknowledge that there are a few styles of footwear and dresses that seem to pair up well with each other. So, here are a few of my suggestions for fabulous pairings for bridesmaid dresses and shoes.
A Wedding Day Emergency Kit Checklist (for the Kiddos)
It’s important to be prepared and your wedding day is no different. I think it’s a good idea for every wedding to plan to have a Wedding Day Emergency Kit on hand… just in case (If you hire a wedding planner – they should bring one with them.). This kit is totally something you can compile yourself with items from around your house. Every wedding is different, so you’ll want to add or subtract items but this is a good rundown of what you’d want to have around in case of a wedding day emergency. Today’s emergency kit is geared to the littlest ones in your wedding party. You can also check out my emergency kits for the ladies and the gents.
For the Wedding Guests: How to Fill Out a RSVP
RSVPs. They’re the dirty word of weddings. Everyone hates them – the guests, the couple, the planner. No one EVER gets all the RSVPs back (in fact, if you’re lucky, you’ll get 30% back – maybe) and it’s frustrating. But more frustrating is when you DO get them back and people haven’t filled them in properly. So, as a public service announcement for the wedding guests, here’s how to fill out an RSVP:
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How to Save Money on Portable Toilets for Your At Home Wedding
For a wedding at your own home, the cost of having portable toilets available for guests may be worth it. You won’t have to worry about plumbing issues, lines in your hallway, or cleaning up before and after. Just have someone else bring them to your home, pick them up after, and they get to clean them! Sound great? Well, then here’s a few tips on how to save money on portable toilets for your at home wedding:
Tips and Advice for Delegating Your Wedding’s DIY Projects
The DIY wedding is a popular opinion for couples on a budget. After all, the concept that it’s cheaper to source materials yourself and do the labor often does save you money. But, as a DIY bride myself, I can tell you that all those little projects can end up being overwhelming and time consuming. So you may need to consider delegating some of the projects to family or friends. But how? Here’s so tips and advice for delegating your wedding’s DIY projects from some great wedding bloggers and my own experience.
The Lazy Bitch’s Guide to Sourcing Rentals on a Budget
But alas, if you want a wedding on a budget – it does take work and work means… well, working. But have no fear, fellow lazy bitches! I’ve rounded up my best tips and ideas for sourcing rentals on a budget (and not breaking a sweat).
Alternative Wedding Vows or Readings: Robin Williams Edition
Let me tell you, one of the hardest things about planning my own wedding was trying to write the wedding ceremony. I was not a fan of the traditional vows (I obey no one but myself thankyouverymuch) and really wanted to find something that reflected our concept of what we wanted our relationship to be. If you’re in the same boat and looking for alternative vows here’s a few from the amazing and truly missed Robin Williams. As a child of the 80’s, I loved him and felt like I knew him. How sweet a memorial would it be to use a few of his best movie lines and quotes about love in your wedding ceremony?
